I'll do it tomorrow

Ponte dei Sospiri

This will not be the usual happy travel story. This year happened one of the things we probably fear the most. Losing someone I loved. And it happened unexpectedly and out of nowhere. 

We sometimes are too lazy to give a phone call, leave a message to someone telling them we miss them or just go and visit someone. We think to ourselves I'll do it tomorrow or in the weekend or maybe next week. What we truly don't realize is that we cannot take anything for granted. Maybe the next day will not come. Or maybe it will come for us but not for the person we were planning on calling. How hard is it really give a phone call? How long does it take? 2 minutes maybe? Even 5. But the regret that you didn't do it will stay with you forever. This might be too personal. Actually it is too personal. But if I make you show that love today then it is ok. But please go and make that phone call now, leave that message now, visit that loved one now or hug them now. Because tomorrow might not come and you'd wish you would have done it. And it will not be possible anymore. Be present in the moment and don't say you'll do it tomorrow or in the weekend. You'll feel better and definitely the one receiving your call, hug, message or visit will feel better as well. And loved and cared for. 

I wish I could give him a phone call but I cannot do that anymore. It felt so unreal going through what we went through. I will not go into details because even thinking about it makes my heart break. Just please show and express your love today.